Question: please help is this rude?

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Answer #1:

they can't froce you yes
But they can kick you out and then?
You have to llok after yourself and get a job and get a house
hard eh???
Whoi says no to extra vacations?
More studies? Come on now.....who does that
The reason is that you want to stay alone there
Right?

Answer #2:

Yes it is. And of course they can't force you because you can always leave and go off on your own.

Answer #3:

Yes, you are 18, and although you live an adult life-style, it is still difficult for parents to accept that their child is growing up. In their eyes, you are still young, (as you are) Being an adult is not always just about age, but also how independent you are; as in taking care of your own finances, taking responsibility, solving your own issues, taking the initiative. Of course, at 18 you cannot be forced to go on vacation with family. And when you are 18, family vacations can be really unexciting and uninspiring. However, consider as well, that being an adult, does also mean thinking about others and doing things for others that you may not like to do. Think of all the things that your parents have done for you. Sometimes, we do not think enough about others. you may not enjoy the vacation now, but trust me when I tell you that down the road, when your parents and family cannot be together like this anymore, you would feel good about the memories you have of the last few times that you were all together.

Answer #4:

Well, a family trip with a reunion involved is usually a pretty big deal, so if you don't go it will be kind of rude. On the other hand if it will cause you to miss an exam, then you just about can't go, right? If you could talk to your professor and see about taking the exam early or at some other time then you could still go to the reunion. But actually, I get the feeling that you just do not want to go. If that's the case, then use the exam as your excuse and don't go.





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